More about having a marital affair...
Extra-marital affairs, infidelity & cheating have traditionally been associated with men. Men have almost always been blamed, but this totally ignores the fact that it does need a woman to do it with. There has been a loose acceptance that it is always the man's fault, that he is the one in control. But in our enlightened society of today more women are taking the lead and realizing what they actually want, and often enough, that turns out to be an affair. Most women cheat basically because they feel that they don't get the attention they want and need from their partner. Attention from a new partner can be very exciting and flattering and can easily lead to some good no strings sex or maybe to an extra marital affair
. Sex is a natural desire - as natural for a woman as a man, as is the desire to recapture the excitement of having a sexual relationship with a new partner.
Whatever you care to admit to, you must remember what that was like back in the day! . Women are beginning to assert themselves, to take the lead in finding these sexual relationships and you will find many of them looking for an extra marital affair and no strings sex at forbidden affair.
The author of the book "When Good People Have Affairs", Mira Kirshenbaum, clinical director for the Chestnut Hill Institute for Research and
Relationship Therapy in Boston found that in many cases adultery may
actually save a boring marriage and give it the new fire it deserves. She writes that with society refusing to engage in sympathetic discussions regarding infidelity, the positive sides of the act have been totally ignored. And further - : "Sometimes an affair can be the best way for the person who has been unfaithful to get the information and impetus to change."
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